Today I begin the article with a question, do you think that combine our personal love and romantic love is a good idea? Whatever your best answer, I hope that when you finish reading this understand article because it is not a good idea to relate this it is one of the main reasons that cause emotional dependence.
Couple Love Mix and Self-Esteem
The word comes from Latin love love, -oris , In those days the word depends on the context in which it was used meant some kind of specific love. When someone said you love not only was the kind of love of a man and a woman (which in our culture is the most frequent association) but also in the love felt an acquaintance, love to a friend, individual love, and so on . I love the word could mean many things depending on what context in which it was said.
In this article we will talk about whether romantic love and self – esteem can be mixed. Through the years I have met the experience of hundreds of relationships through their own players and noticed a pattern common to all these experiences:
- That person I loved, betrayed me with another! I feel that unhappy.
- I love her dearly, but she does not love me, I want to die!
- It delivered all over the world, to my soul. For what? It not at all served! I feel bbb.
- That unfortunately, always ungrateful, I raging.
And we can continue with hundreds of examples, if you move away from the situation at hand and look at it from another point of view, you ‘ll notice that all these people are “unhappy” this means that their happiness was and is in the hands of their partner or ex- couple. It should be mentioned that everything tends to improve over time but if awareness of error is being committed is not taken can fall into the same hole that already fell earlier times.
At this point of the article you will come to the conclusion that can be FATAL mix romantic love and self – love or not?
If you’re the type of person who put your happiness in the hands of another, in this case your partner tell you in all sincerity that you’re playing with fire .
Join me and let’s look at this situation … Come on!
Not attract what you want, you attract what you are
Imagine for a moment that all happiness absolutely love and appreciation that you need to give it you, only you. Depends anyone you feel good, you’re a happy person, radiate pure happiness around you. What do you think would happen?
You would become a being of happiness, and would attract people into your life happy. Do you believe me?
As a being of happiness, what do you think will attract? Need more welfare true?
If you’re always a happy being, you attract people in tune with you, in this case your partner also would be a happy person How beautiful relationship!
If you do not depend on him or her to be happy, your relationship to a higher level pass (for life)
If you are happy with your means and your partner makes you a bad move, for example, you commit an infidelity, you should know how to overcome infidelity.
Separate the loving couple and your own personal love.
Love couple must choose life as a companion to spend good times and bad, tolerance, surrender, trust. Instead, it encompass happiness in the world more generally self-esteem, self esteem, feel good about yourself, gratitude, etc. Many times I have heard that the best health is talk together with family or friends.
I can give witness to this because I live, you know I’m married and our policy is this. And before you are both my husband and I were (and are) happy people individually.